Disturbed Over Small Incident
Today Morning I checked my WhatsApp message, usually, I do not check it in the morning. But I do not know what prompted me Today Morning I checked my WhatsApp message, usually, I do not check it in the morning. But I do not know what prompted me to check. After reading through the message I was stressed, I was not able to concentrate on anything. Usually, I spend my morning hours with my kid and answer some Quora questions. But today I could concentrate on it.
I was wondering what has happened to me. What to do I did not have any idea. As I have to rush to the office, took a bath, had breakfast, put on my id card, hung the office bag, took the bike key, and set for the office.
45 minutes of journey to my office, less traffic, and haunting of messages on WhatsApp took all my joy of riding.
I soon as I reached the office I replied to the message taking full responsibility. The moment I pressed the arrow button to send, my WhatsApp message I was relieved by the stress I was going through.
As I reached the office before time, it gave me little time to reflect on the matter. I realized that the work which was beyond my control for which I was blamed. I reacted and I blamed someone next in the chain. My mind started to work on defending my stand. I was perplexed.
After some time the person called me, he said, “I was so desperate for the work to be done, and it was already late. so just I taught to let you know. I am worried if my work is being done or not. my intention was not to blame you but the system, I acknowledge the effort you are putting into the work. “
Our mind works strangely, we interpret things on our own without trying to realize the other side of the coin. We start argument after argument and we reach nowhere. we lose our calmness and react to things even if we do not have any control over them.
We come across many such situations, how we react makes the difference. Stress and Tension through which we go could be easily stopped. If we just try to observe our reaction of the mind. When we are under stress and in tension, we make many people unhappy in and around us. Ultimately we are unhappy.
The incident may seem very small but this small thing affects our behavior.
